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15 | 答福建林西仲問,韓昌黎一女兩壻書,昨蒙下詢韓昌黎長女兩壻之說,據皇甫湜所為。昌黎誌云:夫人髙平郡君范陽盧氏孤,前進士昶壻。左拾遺李漢聓,集賢校理樊宗懿,次女,許嫁陳氏三女未笄,是昌黎,見存者三女,惟長女已嫁李漢,而次與三尚室女也。其有一壻為樊校理,不無可疑,因有昌黎長女更嫁兩壻之說而解之者為曲。釋之,謂誌文句讀不同,樊所取者次女也,所許嫁陳氏者,乃三女也。其文以次女三女為讀,而以「未笄二字屬之,許嫁之三女,此亦尚論古人不厭忠厚之苦心苐僕不謂然者,《曲禮女子二十許嫁,笄而字,而昏禮與公羊傳亦皆謂許嫁始笄,獨《雜記》云女雖未許嫁,年二十而笄則笄,亦有不必待許嫁者。然是未許嫁而笄竝未有許嫁而稱未笄者,以古無幼婚笄者許嫁之節也。且昌黎三女竝非許嫁陳氏者也,在昌黎死時,三女尚幼,無問名者,故稱曰未笄。而其後儼然有昌黎少壻,見于太和、開成之間。考《唐書蔣乂傳》,載乂子名,系官右補闕,為權門所忌,斥之在外,竝及其僚壻李漢。而系傳云宰相李德裕惡李漢,以系友壻,出為桂管觀察使,復坐李漢貶唐州刺史。夫僚壻友壻者妻,兄弟之夫稱也,系得與漢為僚友壻,則必以三女為配,而因為僚友。此非許嫁陳氏者所能溷矣。是以長女壻李次女、壻陳三女壻蔣明有分屬,雖陳氏之壻無所聞見。他傳載當時朝官有欲改昌黎所作《順宗實錄》者,礙其壻蔣系、李漢得以不改,不及陳氏。然不得謂昌黎無陳氏一壻,此易暁耳。至于樊氏、宗懿亦以壻稱,則絶無可考。僕寓既無書,且其事隱又無他書,可以轉見,苐就昌黎本集觀之,其輯之者即漢也。集首有序,署隴西門人李漢所譔。而篇中有云:漢辱知于公最厚,且親且親者以壻故也。是昌黎死後,漢方為昌黎輯集,敦子壻之誼甚篤,而謂其死前乃生奪其妻而予樊氏,不然一也。即《昌黎集》中載有中大夫陜州司馬李公墓誌,名郱者,即漢父也。昌黎為壻父作銘,惟恐不著,故于子七人之後不載他子婚娶,而獨于漢曰,漢韓氏壻也,故以屬予銘。其文在長慶元年,是昌黎于壻父作銘,尚自敦舅禮,如是而甫越三載及長慶四年昌黎死,而即云有他壻,不然二也。即云此之易壻,本奪生妻,非婺所改也。是必女有他故,而尊章遣之。其歉在李不在韓,故女雖改適,而壻誼如故,則出妻大事。其在史傳家誌,竝無李郱出婦,李漢改娶一語,見于文間。且昌黎為郱銘時,中及夫人,此宜有微言隱詞,略見大意,而亦未嘗有片言存見棄之跡,坦坦白白,其不然四也。且夫以人情之善移也,漢既親與韓絶,則雖與蔣系為僚壻,而名實不浹在旁,人所窺伺者,自應以漸而殺。況漢歴仕宦,升沉已久,其距昌黎死時,已不知閲幾何嵗,而在人之忌昌黎與忌蔣系者,必甘心于漢,則其終始相膠漆,而絶無離異。公然可知其不然五也。若謂改嫁之例,唐俗不嚴,故昌黎許之,宋即無是矣,則又不然。烈女不更二夫,此前人之言不始自宋,假使女果被出,則出女改嫁,前固有之,又不始自唐。是以顔氏家訓載曽子出妻事,以為蒸梨不熟,姑薄其過,所謂出妻令可嫁,而國策有云,棄婦不出里閈,而人爭取之者良婦也。則出妻改嫁,古亦竝無或阻之者,然而士大夫家必無其事。況唐去古逺于伉,儷頗重,而昌黎又斤斤于學術焉,見閨門雍肅不如宋人,其不然六也。然而皇甫之為文,則可疑孰甚。使無其事耶?則一女而箸,兩壻其文不通,使有其事而需諱耶?則又不必以兩壻複行,但領一壻字,而後所云次女三女者,或略冺其數,誰得非之?且從來行,文無連箸,兩壻而異其字者。皇甫為昌黎門人,縱不善文,亦不必出此。僕揣其意,似昌黎有他女,或羣從中外之子撫而嫁之,所云撫女如已女者,然實非其女也,故于稱壻時特殊其字以別之,而又以三女簡核其數,使知此壻為他壻,以為此紀,實非虛詞也。然乎,否乎?按聓即壻字,昏義釋文》謂壻俗作聟,後又更作聓,揚雄《方言聓謂之倩是也,但此是古俗字,故《東觀漢紀》、《風俗通》、《博物志》及《後漢書註》始有此字,如光武與伯叔及姊聓鄧晨坐語,趙岐為馬融妹聓,類皆非正經文字所用,然則雅俗竝出,或亦故為此區分,以示異乎?此皆曲臆之不必然者。皇甫妄文,姑為此妄解,何如頓首。 |
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